yeahh...i think i will start updating my blog again..look forward for it everyone!!
it's a serious announcemant..haha..^^happy homework-ing day!!
holiday=no holiday..haizz
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Monday, March 23, 2009
My First.....dedicated to MingKhai
MK:
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can‘t stop.
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
This is Forever Friendship.
When you‘re down, and the world seems dark and empty,
your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.
Your forever friend gets you through the hard times,the sad times,and the confused times.
If you turn and walk away,
your forever friend follows,
If you lose you way,
your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.
Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.
And forever has no end
I am glad that I had found such a friend.
Ming Khai,
Always believe in yourself.I know you having a hard time struggling to adapt.But,never lose your heart!Time tames the strongest grief. Conquer it all, my friend!
Weep no more , no sigh , nor groan. Sorrow calls no time that's gone.
------(John Fletcher , British dramatist )
REPLY TO: http://sun111sun.blog.friendster.com/2009/03/frenz/
So how??? touched?? I specially post a blog upon your great name. Wakaka..and i would like to stress that this is my first long post in English.
Actually, I want to say that what you wrote on your blog really did reach the inside of my heart. So, I decided to write one back as a reply.
Erm..we are best friend.But, we aren't as close as you are with your A1 bunch of friends. Though I was not always around you and hang up with you all, not always pulling porn jokes and laugh endlessly with it(sometimes,I even a bit fed up with yours' dry sense of humour, haha..sorry about that) However, I really do treasure our friendship.
Actually, I want to say that what you wrote on your blog really did reach the inside of my heart. So, I decided to write one back as a reply.
Erm..we are best friend.But, we aren't as close as you are with your A1 bunch of friends. Though I was not always around you and hang up with you all, not always pulling porn jokes and laugh endlessly with it(sometimes,I even a bit fed up with yours' dry sense of humour, haha..sorry about that) However, I really do treasure our friendship.
We get along quite well and become closer in Form4 I think. You used to sit in front of me in tution classes(ah goh, ah ong). Haha. and then we start chit-chatting all the way, throughout the tution.Once or twice, we were even been "stared" by the teacher.."shhh.."he goes. For a moment, we zipped up our mouth, but the next second we turned back to our ownself again. Add Maths tution become my favourite because we always went to 新界to have our dinner before the class. We even made fun of the drinks and named one of them"红毛榴连"(in hokkien), but it's actually the soursop juice.
I still remembered that i always had fun teasing you about your scandals. haha.. You and the little one and also you and the housefly. which one you prefer?? Well, believe me, they both suite you well and you make up a nice pair of couple with them.
I still remembered that i always had fun teasing you about your scandals. haha.. You and the little one and also you and the housefly. which one you prefer?? Well, believe me, they both suite you well and you make up a nice pair of couple with them.
A friend is a loving companion at all times. When I think of you, the miles between us disappear. You're a wonderful friend, and I treasure you more with every year. You are that kind of friend who walk in when the rest of the world walk out of me.
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can‘t stop.
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
This is Forever Friendship.
When you‘re down, and the world seems dark and empty,
your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.
Your forever friend gets you through the hard times,the sad times,and the confused times.
If you turn and walk away,
your forever friend follows,
If you lose you way,
your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.
Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.
And forever has no end
I am glad that I had found such a friend.
Ming Khai,
Always believe in yourself.I know you having a hard time struggling to adapt.But,never lose your heart!Time tames the strongest grief. Conquer it all, my friend!
Weep no more , no sigh , nor groan. Sorrow calls no time that's gone.
------(John Fletcher , British dramatist )
REPLY TO: http://sun111sun.blog.friendster.com/2009/03/frenz/
凌晨二时
把日记缩成网志放上来了。
2008年，好像很久了...那时，外公离开。
2009年，才刚到来...这时，离开我的是我最亲的爷爷－－阿公。
所以，才下定决心一定要写下来，一定...
外公的离去，老实说，并不对我日常起了什么多大的不同。外公，是我生命中敬重的亲人。
然而。阿公的离开是很震撼的。他是活在我生活中的人，是我一起生活了17年的亲人。
17年...阿公已不是普通的过客，而是一个永远会停留在我心里、脑里的人。
在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。
2008年，好像很久了...那时，外公离开。
2009年，才刚到来...这时，离开我的是我最亲的爷爷－－阿公。
所以，才下定决心一定要写下来，一定...
外公的离去，老实说，并不对我日常起了什么多大的不同。外公，是我生命中敬重的亲人。
然而。阿公的离开是很震撼的。他是活在我生活中的人，是我一起生活了17年的亲人。
17年...阿公已不是普通的过客，而是一个永远会停留在我心里、脑里的人。
在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。
2008年1月6日(星期日)
出殡的日子
今天是阿公出殡的日子。仪式都办得很隆重。好多人、社团、会团都来鞠躬。场面挺壮观的。阿公在交怡岛算是有头有脸的人物，倍受尊重。所以，丧礼相当风光。
今天见识了许多传统仪式、习俗、禁忌...送阿公时，大家都哭了。这真是最后一程了。
以后回来，再也看不到阿公坐在店外的木凳上，戴着他那副褐色镜框的眼镜口里叼着一枝烟...真的再也见不到了。
我会想念的...
今天是阿公出殡的日子。仪式都办得很隆重。好多人、社团、会团都来鞠躬。场面挺壮观的。阿公在交怡岛算是有头有脸的人物，倍受尊重。所以，丧礼相当风光。
今天见识了许多传统仪式、习俗、禁忌...送阿公时，大家都哭了。这真是最后一程了。
以后回来，再也看不到阿公坐在店外的木凳上，戴着他那副褐色镜框的眼镜口里叼着一枝烟...真的再也见不到了。
我会想念的...
2008年1月3日(星期四)
奔丧的第二天
没什么特别，一样是念经、吃斋...
我想我应该开始虔诚祈祷了，世间很多事都不能如人意的。毕竟宗教是最好的精神寄托。
悲伤会持久吗?怎么我觉得它好像是短暂的...是不是人都擅长忘记痛楚?不愿意永远记得那失去的痛??
P/S: 弟弟说阿公七孔出血。这好像是个禁忌。自己没看到，因为迟醒。
没什么特别，一样是念经、吃斋...
我想我应该开始虔诚祈祷了，世间很多事都不能如人意的。毕竟宗教是最好的精神寄托。
悲伤会持久吗?怎么我觉得它好像是短暂的...是不是人都擅长忘记痛楚?不愿意永远记得那失去的痛??
P/S: 弟弟说阿公七孔出血。这好像是个禁忌。自己没看到，因为迟醒。
Sunday, March 22, 2009
2008年1月2日 (星期三)
回去浮罗交怡奔丧的第一天。8点早上的船。一到达家门口，迎接我们的是阿公冰冷的尸体...
写这篇日记，是想好好记录奔丧的过程，记录我的心情，更重要的是纪念阿公。
今天，第一次看到尸体，亲人的尸体就在我眼前。妈妈和阿姨们哭得好厉害。那些撕心裂肺的哭声，我想，我一辈子都忘不了。年轻的阿婆沮丧的脸，泪痕满满，眼角悄悄地流下眼泪...无声的哽咽，她一个人坐在楼梯口，她该有多痛苦?? 舅舅们也流下了不少男人泪，谁说男儿有泪不轻弹??有时，他们比女人更感性些。承受得太多，一些不必要的自尊...感伤的场面。
慢慢地，习惯了泪水，习惯了悲伤...脑海中盘旋的是我何时最后一次见到阿公?几时最后一次听到阿公的声音?
原来面对死亡，人的脑袋总会想许多问题...
写这篇日记，是想好好记录奔丧的过程，记录我的心情，更重要的是纪念阿公。
今天，第一次看到尸体，亲人的尸体就在我眼前。妈妈和阿姨们哭得好厉害。那些撕心裂肺的哭声，我想，我一辈子都忘不了。年轻的阿婆沮丧的脸，泪痕满满，眼角悄悄地流下眼泪...无声的哽咽，她一个人坐在楼梯口，她该有多痛苦?? 舅舅们也流下了不少男人泪，谁说男儿有泪不轻弹??有时，他们比女人更感性些。承受得太多，一些不必要的自尊...感伤的场面。
慢慢地，习惯了泪水，习惯了悲伤...脑海中盘旋的是我何时最后一次见到阿公?几时最后一次听到阿公的声音?
原来面对死亡，人的脑袋总会想许多问题...
2008年1月1日 (星期二) -----------悲伤的开始
今天虽然是晴天，但家里却愁云密布。外公去世了...自我懂事以来第一个离开我的亲人。初次尝到阴阳相隔的滋味。
印象中,我和外公并不常联络。但,总记得小时候，外公常把我抱在怀里。接到外公去世的消息，我没那么激动，反而有些镇静。妈妈很伤心...连握着手机的手也颤抖着。哭得很厉害...
人嘛...总会为失去的而悲伤。
印象中,我和外公并不常联络。但,总记得小时候，外公常把我抱在怀里。接到外公去世的消息，我没那么激动，反而有些镇静。妈妈很伤心...连握着手机的手也颤抖着。哭得很厉害...
人嘛...总会为失去的而悲伤。
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